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How people react is uncontrollable, but how it is processed within is so much in scope. This piece of writing is all about it. There are some super bright days when someone sNo matter what you do, someone will always be unhappy. Mostly, it is because they could not be what you are. Some people are cold, hostile, humiliating, and even cutthroat sometimes. How people react is uncontrollable, but how it is processed within is so much in scope. This piece of writing is all about it. There are some super bright days when someone suddenly crashed the inner vibe and instilled discomfort. Almost all of us go through this. It is easy to say stay away from such people. But what do we do if they exist as an integral part of everyday life? Let us delve into three focuses –
1. Knowing the Why
2. The Means to Feeling Better
3. Eradicating in the Long Run
As a human, every other person is the star of their story. Personally, inside the mind, we are the stars where someone is disrupting our peace; it will be a different story in that someone’s mind. Wrong and right are just perspectives, but what goes deep within needs to be acknowledged, embraced, and helped. Ideally, it is good to identify the people that make you uncomfortable constantly. What are the instances that made you uncomfortable and anxious? Embrace the fact that you are going through something against what you want to be.
Knowing the why
The environment where such events happen is the same place where there is a bigger reason to be (than just encountering such discomforts). So identifying the real purpose of being in a place or doing something could be foundational to understanding the bigger picture. Once the bigger picture is determined, the focus radically shifts in that direction. Knowing the bigger picture, investing effort towards priorities, and cancelling the noises would turn life into a blessing. The success out of it can even dissipate discomforts forever. Focus shift to better upgrades and drastic growth is instrumental.
Means to feeling better
On a fine evening, a cold gesture could collapse the mesmerizing dinner with family or even sleep. Well, who knows what they are going through. It could be worse shit, but why should that affect you? So the moment it hurts, it is good to ignore; well, even nicer to snap out to something exciting or appealing. Like talking to friends, family, thinking of some nice gesture of a stranger, or focusing on the next exciting thing to put the mind into. It might sound intriguing initially, but eventually, the muscle memory of the head performs it so well! Trust me on this.
Eradicating in the long run
Besides all the icing on the cake, putting up with the shit is not the sole purpose of existence. So it is always sensible to stay away from all the nonsense. Finding a permanent solution, in the long run, is important. Life is too short to invest our joy elements in someone else’s attitude. Patience is a virtue. By focusing on what is important to you, and skipping the interaction to the max can be so revelatory. It is good to slowly distance and eventually eliminate because dear admirable soul, you live only once live it with utmost comfort, joy, and blessing. Everyone deserves it! Nobody shall ever compromise on their fringe of priorities and joy. 🙂
