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In the age of social media and the conspicuous displays of affluence, we often find ourselves swept up in the hustle and bustle of life without pausing to reflect on the fundamental question, “Why do we do what we do?” It’s a question that, if pondered upon, might lead us to reconsider our choices and recognize how we’re becoming victims of unending materialism.
Think of this: Those living in rented houses aspire to own their own homes. People in independent villas yearn for city flats, and flat owners dream of countryside farmhouses. The list of desires seems endless. Those with bicycles desire motorcycles, and those with motorcycles crave cars. Car owners seek to upgrade to more expensive models. The cycle of desire and acquisition continues until we consciously put a stop to it.
Have you ever noticed how fleeting the excitement is once you’ve acquired something that’s been on your wish list for a long time?
Sometimes, the anticipation and excitement fade faster than the time spent desiring the object.
It’s a strange but undeniable truth. Purchasing beautiful furniture, fashionable clothes, and stylish accessories does bring happiness and satisfaction, but these feelings often fade quickly as our brains adapt to these possessions, considering them a part of daily life.
No matter how grand the house, the feeling of loneliness remains the same. Regardless of how expensive the car, the roads are unchanged. No matter how many watches one owns, they all show the same time, and you can only wear one at a time.
Subconsciously, we fall into the trap of seeking attention and validation from others. This line of thinking leads us to live lives that often deviate from our true desires. It’s essential to differentiate between genuine needs and desires and the influence of societal norms and status expectations. Ultimately, what we take with us as we depart this life is the fulfillment of having lived a happy life with our loved ones. Let’s not squander this precious life in a bid to prove our worth to others.
Remember, life is yours to live according to your priorities and choices. Focus on actions that bring you enduring joy, the kind that doesn’t fade away with time, but rather stays with you for ages and beyond.
Life is Yours, live it by your priorities & choices, do things that make you smile for ages and beyond, things that don’t fade away even if you do.
